It is hard to believe that January is halfway gone. I had meant to write about this topic earlier, but I never quite got around to it. I would be remiss if I didn't take this opportunity to discuss an issue that is near to my heart (and my health). After all, January is Cervical Cancer Awareness Month.
I am a cervical cancer survivor. Although I
don't discuss this part of my life often, the cancer experience has
shaped who I am now and how I view the world. I am grateful that I have
nearly 9 years of being cervical cancer free, yet I remain vigilant and
guarded about my health. I continue to live in fear of hearing the
doctor tell me that I have cancer again, but I also know that I owe it
to myself and to my family and friends to stay proactive about my cancer
All too often fear of a positive diagnosis keeps
people from seeking cancer screenings. Let me assure you that those
pesky and dangerous cells will continue to grow whether or not you know
that they are present. As with most diseases, early diagnosis is the key
to successful treatment.
I have no doubt that my life would be
very different had I not given in to my mother's nagging. I knew that
"something" was wrong, but I was in my 20's and busy with life. I knew
in my heart that there was no way I could be diagnosed with cancer.
After a series of phone calls and requests, I finally appeased my Mom
and scheduled an appointment with my doctor. Although my physician took
swabs to determine a diagnosis, I considered it a test to prove my
Unfortunately, she was correct and I had cancer.
Those words struck me to my core and the memory continues to elicit a
visceral reaction. I am alive and healthy now squarely because I got
tested. I can never thank my Mom enough because I truly believe that she
helped to save my life.
Cancer is a terrifying diagnosis, but
beating the disease is a realistic and attainable goal if it is
diagnosed early. Not knowing that your body is being ravaged from the
inside out can be a catastrophic disadvantage. I found out I had cancer,
was able to receive treatment and have continued to live a wonderful
life. Being a cancer survivor is part of who I am, but it does not
define me. I am a mother, wife, daughter, sister, friend, writer,
amputee, and advocate. If I hadn't been tested and treated, none of
these roles would be possible. I would simply be known as "dearly
I am urging all of my female friends and readers to
get tested for cervical cancer. Yes, going to the gynecologist is an
inconvenience at best. Nobody relishes being exposed in the stirrups,
but a few moments of embarrassment is a fair trade for the rest of your
life. Learn from my experience: if cervical cancer can happen to me it
could happen to you. Getting swabbed just might save your life!
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