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I am a below knee amputee. More importantly, I am also Mommy to two boys, a very active 10 year old (Robby) and an mischievous toddler (Timmy). I have learned that being a parent with a disability can create some unusual and sometimes humorous situations. This blogger is available for hire! Let's talk and learn how a blog can expand your business.

Friday, September 02, 2022

Long Weekend

After numerous surgeries, my brother is recovering from a leg bypass. The doctors are optimistic that the bypass was successful. He remains in a lot of pain, but we are hopeful that he will recover. I'm comforted knowing that my mom was able to travel to be with him during this scary time.

With Scott already having a month in the classroom under his belt I have to keep reminding myself that we were still in the throws of summer. Labor Day weekend used to herald the beginning of a new school year. With the boys starting the school year earlier than ever, this year Labor Day feels out-of-place. 

Of course, I am happy for the four day weekend that Scott is able to enjoy. It will be nice having him home for a few days before we kick back into gear. Have a great holiday weekend!

Thursday, September 01, 2022

Changing the Trajectory

One phone call can change the trajectory of your entire week.

Monday night we learned that my brother was in a hospital in Austin. Jae has been complaining about strong pains his leg for awhile. His complaints were dismissed and rationalized by his lifestyle. The pain intensified to such a degree that he was transported by ambulance to the hospital.  

After several days of no contact, my mom began to work the phones to locate him. A mother's intuition is rarely wrong! By the time Jae was located he had endured three surgeries for blood clots in his leg and was scheduled for more. My mom immediately began to pack her bags while my sister and I worked the internet to arrange her travel. 

This morning my mom is waking up in Austin and I am preparing to go to Pennsylvania to assume dog sitting responsibilities.  We are hoping to get more information when she is able to connect directly with his medical team.  Please hold my mom and my brother in your thoughts.

 


Wednesday, August 31, 2022

Adjusting

 I am proud of how well Robby has adjusted to the school schedule. He complains in the morning (I have yet to meet a teen who enjoys waking up) but he quickly gets to work. He has invested several hours working on his schedule and planning his semester projects. This is the first time that we haven't felt overwhelmed at the start of a semester. (I certainly hope this trend continues.)

While Robby has been busy working on his assignments, Timmy is enjoying his final week of summer. Unfortunately the weather was miserable for the past few days, forcing us to stay inside. Undeterred, he transformed his bottom bunk into a fort, complete with a small refrigerator and a disco ball. He has been happy to initiate everybody into his new club. 

We had our first heavy rain since we waterproofed the chimney. Scott and I were both anxious throughout the storm, staring at the typical leaky spots. To our relief the ceiling remained dry. We remain cautiously optimistic that we fixed the problem. More storms are forecast throughout today, so I guess we will have an definitive answer.  Fingers crossed!

Monday, August 29, 2022

School Days

 Today Robby's summer vacation officially comes to an end. It is hard to believe that my little Koopa is going to be a Junior in high school. When did that happen? In my eyes he remains my sweet little boy.

The memory of hiding in the bushes to spy on the first day of kindergarten is so vivid it feels like it was yesterday. Now he is entering the home stretch of his high school education and eyeing potential careers. Yikes! Thankfully Robby remains just as sweet as he was so many years ago, although it is harder to wrap my arms around him now. 

Robby returns to studying this week, but Timmy has another week of vacation. He begins his new hybrid Montessori school next week. I'm anxious and excited about his new learning adventure. With a combination of virtual and in-person classes, I know that he is going to thrive. Hopefully I won't end up in the bushes this time.