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I am a below knee amputee. More importantly, I am also Mommy to two boys, a very active 10 year old (Robby) and an mischievous toddler (Timmy). I have learned that being a parent with a disability can create some unusual and sometimes humorous situations. This blogger is available for hire! Let's talk and learn how a blog can expand your business.

Friday, March 31, 2023

Pink Panties

 Yesterday Timmy had some medical tests that I have been dreading. I hate seeing him uncomfortable and hurting. While I know that diagnostics is a necessary evil, it hurts my heart to see him so vulnerable. 

Before his procedure the nurse handed him a gown and asked him to change. He immediately started to strip (this boy has no shame) and maintained a cheerful conversation throughout. I managed to pull him behind the curtain as he stepped out of his pants and underwear. I'm glad that we were quasi-private because I was shocked by the sight before me.

Despite taking off his pants and underpants, he was not yet naked. He was wearing my underpants. My bright pink striped granny panty sized underpants. Shocked, I said louder than I anticipated, "Timmy, why are you wearing my underpants?"  

Without missing a beat, he said, "Momom, I was worried that I might pee during the test and I wanted to be prepared. You can pee in your underpants so I wore them for an emergency. Big brain." 

I heard the nurse laughing through the partition. When we finally drew back the curtain my face was as red as his little slipper socks. I was going to try to continue as if nothing happened, but Timmy had other ideas.

Looking at the nurse he said, "I wore my Momom's underpants because they hold a lot of pee. She bought them special so she can pee in them." 

The nurse just nodded and tried to maintain her giggles. In another 30 years she will understand, but her youthful bladder has no idea about its uncertain future. 

Thanks Timmy.

 


Thursday, March 30, 2023

Walking into Spring

 It is the week before Spring Break and it is safe to say that it has already gotten away from me. I am not sure where the past two days went but I do know that I was busy from the moment I woke until I finally fell into bed at night. Although I want to finish the week strong, I really do hope that my schedule begins to ease in the coming days. 

In addition to being especially busy at work, Friend has been particularly vocal about his desire to be outside chasing the squirrels. It feels like every time I find a moment to sit he is on my heels, yipping to go outside. Thank goodness for my audio books and my headphone sunglasses to help me pass the time. I enjoy walking and listening to the stories, but sometimes I just really want to sit on the couch with my leg off. Friend, much like my kids, don't seem to understand that concept.

With all of the miles I'm logging with Friend I have been putting a lot more strain on my prosthesis and my leg. After a difficult winter, all of the sores and bumps on my limb have finally healed. I'm vigilant about maintaining my skin integrity but I am grateful that I am walking without an issue. It continues to amaze me how a single little hair can derail my mobility for days. 

I plan on doing my best to make sure my skin stays healthy going forward!

Monday, March 27, 2023

Kind

Although it wasn't planned, this weekend was essentially divided equally between both boys. Timmy was the focus of most of my attention on Saturday. We went rollerskating in the afternoon and stopped at Chipotle for dinner. By the time we arrived home he was a sweaty and happy mess.  On Sunday we packed up in the afternoon and headed to watch Robby's band perform. He has grown so much in both skill and confidence since he started playing. I love watching him take to the stage!

Between skating, rocking and numerous bike rides we had a fantastic weekend. I'm not sure I'm ready for the week ahead, but considering I have no choice I had better embrace the adventures. Hopefully this week will be kind.