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I am a below knee amputee. More importantly, I am also Mommy to two boys, a very active 10 year old (Robby) and an mischievous toddler (Timmy). I have learned that being a parent with a disability can create some unusual and sometimes humorous situations. This blogger is available for hire! Let's talk and learn how a blog can expand your business.

Thursday, February 27, 2025

Disappointed

After the bright sunshine and warm temperatures of yesterday today's chilly rain feels especially dreary. We had more snow this year than we have in a decade, but both Timmy and I were hoping for a whopper of a storm. Unfortunately, it seems that we are on a warming trend. So instead of lamenting our absent snow, we are looking forward to planting peach trees and blueberry bushes.  At this point, bring on the sunshine!

I've enjoyed having Timmy's classroom in a separate part of the house. It allows me more freedom throughout the day to move things around, make noise and basically exist without the fear of ending up on camera. I do miss hearing his responses though. Yesterday I was upstairs while Timmy was in a map lesson. I heard his teacher ask him where he lived in West Virginia.  Timmy responded- "I live in the part of West Virginia where they have high speed internet and I don't have to marry my cousin."  I do think I will miss overhearing his "Timmyisms" throughout the day, but the separation is definitely best for all of us.

Yesterday Robby received some disappointing news. He applied to travel to Normandy with the National World War II Museum's Normandy Academy. He has had this set as a goal for the past three years and has worked to curate his resume towards this opportunity. Unfortunately, he learned that he was not accepted this year. 

After wallowing in disappointment for a few hours, Robby called me.  He admitted to being bummed but  vowed to submit an even stronger application next year.  I'm so proud of him!

Tuesday, February 25, 2025

Aunt Judy

 Over the weekend I learned the sad news that my Aunt Judy, my dad's beloved sister, passed away.  Judy had been ill for years and, while her passing was not a shock, I am saddened by the news. Even though the news was sad, I couldn't help but smile when I envisioned my Dad and Judy reunited. My Dad would be so very happy to be with her again!  

Judy lived an extraordinarily full life, filled with travel adventures and an amazing friend network. Our family is in a holding pattern until Janet, her partner of more than 50 years, makes the funeral arrangements. In the next few days I know I will be traveling to the Pittsburgh area for her services. 

It is odd to know that Judy was the final link to my Dad and she is now gone. While we were not close throughout my life, her passing marks the end of those paternal connections.  Sigh. I really don't like change!

 

Monday, February 24, 2025

Feeling Better!

 My apologies for not writing last week. I wasn't feeling well and time got away from me.  But my goodness, what a difference a few days has made. I woke up this morning feeling happy and full of energy. For the first time in a long time, I don't feel like I'm dragging!

Robby has been spending more time at college, which is normal but I certainly miss his presence around the house. This past weekend, must like the week before, was laid back and quiet. I did a lot of sleeping and resting.

While we haven't done anything major, we did move Timmy's classroom from the sun room into a guest bedroom. It wasn't a huge project, but it did require some furniture being moved upstairs and around the house. He is looking forward to having a little more privacy throughout his school day. While I think I will miss overhearing his conversations, I think Scott and I are both going to enjoy having full use of our downstairs during the day.