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I am a below knee amputee. More importantly, I am also Mommy to two boys, a very active 10 year old (Robby) and an mischievous toddler (Timmy). I have learned that being a parent with a disability can create some unusual and sometimes humorous situations. This blogger is available for hire! Let's talk and learn how a blog can expand your business.

Thursday, May 27, 2021

Waiting

 We are still waiting for our water delivery. At this point, Scott and I are contemplating filling the pool from our hose. We figure if we run the hose three hours a day, the pool will be full in a few days and the well shouldn't be strained. At least, that is our hope.

I'm so frustrated that we haven't received a response from any of the pool companies we contacted. It feels like nobody answers their own phones these days. I've left at least a dozen messages and have only received crickets as a response. Out of desperation, I have even resorted to sending Facebook messages to the companies. 

Thankfully we heeded the advice of a friend and filled our pool with a few inches of water after it was erected. Not only were we able to refine the leveling, but the water added some weight to the frame. Yesterday a strong storm roared through our area, hitting us with 60 mph wind gusts. We had a few trees in our yard relocate, but our pool stayed in place. 

Fingers crossed we get our delivery today!

Wednesday, May 26, 2021

Tadpole

 Grrr....

After months of waiting and years of dreaming, we are so close to swimming. We are continuing our trend by waiting again, this time for the pool water delivery. I suppose we could fill the pool from our well, but it seems unwise to draw that much water from a relatively limited source. Hopefully the water will be delivered today or tomorrow. Waiting is so hard!

Unfortunately, one of our little tadpoles passed over the rainbow bridge. None of us were surprised by his death. The poor little tad was laying sideways, gulping at the bottom of the tank for days. I tried changing the water but nothing brought him back to health.

Thankfully Scott found him first and was able to scoop him out before we woke up. Timmy was upset when he realized that there were only two swimming tadpoles where there had been three. All morning he refused to call me "momom" choosing, instead, to call me "tadpole killer." As much as I tried to explain that I did nothing to hasten the death, he was adamant that had to be my fault.

As luck would have it, he was learning about the lifecycle of a frog in class. He immediately piped up and told his teacher that he had tadpoles. True to Timmy, he also put his own spin on the tadpole death. "Well, let me tell you something. It's a good thing that I was born a Timmy and not a tadpole. If I was a tadpole I would be dead because Momom kills tadpoles. It was my lucky day that I am not a tadpole." 

His declaration put his classmates into a tizzy, causing the class to go off the rails. I'm pretty sure Timmy's teacher is counting down until the end of the school year as much as us!



Tuesday, May 25, 2021

Ready for Summer

Our hot temperatures yielded to cooler weather and rain. I am glad for the break in the heat, but the rain keeps us from our pool water delivery. It feels quasi-torturous looking at an empty pool in my driveway. I can't wait to start swimming with the boys.

Since we couldn't play outside yesterday, we spent the majority of the day knocking out school assignments and work projects. The boys are quickly coming to the end of their school year. If they push, they should be done by the end of next week. I am going to nudge them as much as possible because I'm ready to call time of death on the 2020/2021 school year. 

 I'm ready for summer!


Monday, May 24, 2021

Swimming Success

After years of dreaming, months of planning and hours of YouTube videos, our new pool is sitting intact and level on our driveway. I can't wait to get it filled with water and to start swimming with the boys. While I still don't think the location is ideal (I would have preferred the backyard), marriage is about compromise and it wasn't worth the battle. I'm simply delighted that we finally have a pool!

The weather wasn't ideal for set-up. It was humid and 92 degrees. While it was obscenely hot for installing a pool, it would have been perfect for swimming. As we were all sweating and red faced, it was easy to keep our eyes on the goal.

Contrary to other home projects, this one progressed rather smoothly. We all worked together on the task and there were minimal complaints. It was nice having the kids so involved with the set-up process. Timmy carefully laid out the pieces around the perimeter while Robby helped us with the heavier tasks. By the time we were done, everybody was proud (and tired) after a job well done!

Now we just wait for the pool water to be delivered. I can't wait! This is going to be an amazing summer.