About Me
- Peggy
- I am a below knee amputee. More importantly, I am also Mommy to two boys, a very active 10 year old (Robby) and an mischievous toddler (Timmy). I have learned that being a parent with a disability can create some unusual and sometimes humorous situations. This blogger is available for hire! Let's talk and learn how a blog can expand your business.
Wednesday, April 23, 2014
Facebook or Faceless?
With all of my professional and personal endeavors, I am fully aware
that I spend more time on the internet than the average person. It is
rare that I don't have Facebook, Twitter, and my email tabs open and
running simultaneously while I work on a project or report. Sitting with
my laptop perched on my lap, it occurs to me that I am extremely
fortunate that I can accomplish so much without changing out of my
pajamas.
Unfortunately, the internet also has
pitfalls made especially visible through social media. Although Facebook
can be utilized as a wonderful vehicle to create a support system, seek
answers, and cultivate and maintain friendships, it can also mirror the
worst in society. People feel protected through their keyboards and
often write posts, post videos and comments that would be considered
reprehensible to speak aloud. In many ways, Facebook has allowed us to
become Faceless.
I tend to be a duck when it comes
to social media, letting much roll off my back without becoming too
invested. Every once in awhile, a post catches my eye and stays with me.
On even rarer occasions, I feel compelled to act. A few days ago I
encountered one of these posts.
Casually surfing
around Facebook, I happened upon a "how to" video which rendered me
speechless. I hesitated to click the link, but eventually my curiosity
got the best of me. I just simply couldn't believe that this type of
informational video would be so readily available to be viewed by
children and those who are vulnerable. Against my better judgment, I
clicked play.
To my horror, the title of the video was
an apt description of the content. The video featured a man amputating
his own foot as he provided commentary concerning how much dry ice was
necessary, the safety precautions that he put in place, and the surge of
adrenaline that he was experiencing. Once I realized what I was viewing
and began to feel that it was authentic, I immediately closed the
video. This was not something that I needed scarred into my psyche!
Disgusted,
I completed the "report content" form on Facebook. Since this video was
easy for me to find, it would certainly be viewed by youngsters and
those confused about their own body image. I am fully aware that
self-amputation occurs, but this type of video has no place on a social
media platform! I flagged the video as abusive because it displayed
self-injury/harmful behavior and spent the remainder of the day trying
to shake the images I viewed.
Yesterday morning I
received a from Facebook informing me that my report was reviewed and
that the video was not deemed inappropriate. Seriously? If teaching
others how to cut off a limb isn't demonstrating self-injury or harmful
behavior, I am not sure what would qualify! I was disgusted by the
ruling and disheartened that the video is still on the social media
platform.
I don't see my reliance upon the internet or
on social media changing anytime soon. This most recent experience
simply solidified my view that social media, especially Facebook, is not
an appropriate platform for children. I may be lax about many things,
but Robby should not expect to open an account anytime soon!
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