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- Peggy
- I am a below knee amputee. More importantly, I am also Mommy to two boys, a very active 10 year old (Robby) and an mischievous toddler (Timmy). I have learned that being a parent with a disability can create some unusual and sometimes humorous situations. This blogger is available for hire! Let's talk and learn how a blog can expand your business.
Thursday, January 22, 2015
Sad Situation
A few nights ago we watched the State of the Union address. Instead of
the doom and gloom, the sky is falling type reports we are accustomed to
hearing, this time the news was encouraging. According to the experts,
the economy is rebounding. We looked at each other and knew that no
words needed to be exchanged. It is ironic that the economic forecast is
so positive when Scott and I were just discussing the dire straits that
many of his students are experiencing.
In 21 years of
teaching, Scott has never had so many students who are truly hungry.
I'm not talking "I'm a teenager and can eat a lot" hungry. I'm talking
about the type of hunger where they can't concentrate on their school
work because of a need to eat. Too many of his students are reliant upon
their free lunch voucher for their only source of nutrition. On
weekends, holidays or snow days when school is closed, we've learned
that many of these kids simply don't eat. It is absolutely
heartbreaking!
For the first few weeks of school I was
unaware of his student's hunger problem. He brought home a list of his
student's birthdays at the beginning of the school year and asked if I
would be willing to make cupcakes to celebrate each one. While I was
happy to oblige, I was surprised by his request. He casually remarked
that he doesn't think some of these kids will have anything other than
our cupcakes to celebrate their birthday, and instead of selecting the
few in need he thought it was best to just do it for everybody. I put
the names and dates on my calendar and have not yet missed a birthday.
While
I thought the cupcake request was odd, I began to suspect that the
issue was more pervasive. I began to notice that our leftovers were
disappearing. Knowing that Scott couldn't eat half of a lasagna for
lunch, I finally asked him what he was doing with all of our food. It
was then that he explained that some of his students this year are truly
hungry.
I wish we could feed all of them, but I
know that is impossible. Instead, we are desperately trying to put a
band-aid on the situation. I have come to expect that any left over
meals will be taken and distributed to his class. We buy ramen noodles
by the case so that we know these kids have something to eat over the
weekend and holidays. Every Thursday morning he drives by Costco to
pick up their expired baked goods. It saddened me to learn of the
excitement of his students when they eagerly pick up stale bread and
rolls to take home to their families.
The experts
are touting economic success, but I doubt that his students would agree.
I look at Robby and Timmy and it breaks my heart to envision them
eagerly accepting their teacher's left over meals and old bread. I am
reminded of how lucky we are to not be in that situation. I know that
our stopgap measures will not fix the situation, but that doesn't mean
that we won't try.
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We have backpack programs here. Not that they solve all problems by any means, but the school can keep them from being hungry through the week and the backpack they take home Friday takes care of the weekend. It's horrifying that such measures are necessary, but I'd rather be horrified than not know they're hungry.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing this. Food banks are overwhelmed and the Food Stamp program is being cut as Congress focuses on the "takers." These real world stories are critical if we are to reignite our "exceptionalism". No child should go hungry in the richest nation on earth.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing this. Food banks are overwhelmed and the Food Stamp program is being cut as Congress focuses on the "takers." These real world stories are critical if we are to reignite our "exceptionalism". No child should go hungry in the richest nation on earth.
ReplyDeleteSo hard to hear, particularly since I assumed that all public schools also had a free breakfast program for kids whose families fell below certain income limits. You might want to look into whether your local food bank offers a weekend backpack program. They're becoming increasingly popular. http://www.feedingamerica.org/our-response/we-feed-children/backpack-program/
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