About Me
- Peggy
- I am a below knee amputee. More importantly, I am also Mommy to two boys, a very active 10 year old (Robby) and an mischievous toddler (Timmy). I have learned that being a parent with a disability can create some unusual and sometimes humorous situations. This blogger is available for hire! Let's talk and learn how a blog can expand your business.
Wednesday, August 27, 2014
Home Alone
The house is eerily quiet without Timmy and Scott. In some ways being
alone with Robby is oddly reassuring. I suppose it reminds me of all the
years it was just the two of us during the day, playing and learning
together. Please don't get me wrong; I still miss Timmy terribly and I
can't wait until he comes home. But in the meantime while I'm healing, I
am going to try to enjoy rekindling the special bond I have with Robby.
Contrary
to Scott's predictions, Robby has not wallowed away the time playing
XBox and watching gaming videos on YouTube. Instead, we have been
playing UNO and other quiet games. He has crafted and performed little
plays, utilizing his turtle collection as both props and characters. We
have spent hours just talking, sometimes about a specific topic but many
times just sharing ideas and random thoughts. I have been reminded of
his humor, compassion and ambitions during our quiet afternoons
together.
Robby wants to change the world, starting
with my prosthetics. Remembering the difficulties I have climbing up the
narrow stairs for the water slides, he has carefully sketched what he
perceives to be the perfect leg. I have no doubt that his
walk/run/climb/swim leg will revolutionize the industry!
After
solving my prosthetic woes, he plans on becoming an archaeologist, gold
miner and ice cream store owner. Rest assured, he has not abandoned his
aspirations to make his own moonshine. He plans on taking up the craft
as a hobby as soon as he is allowed to use the tools to build his own
still.
In a few short days he will be back in
school, and Timmy will become my afternoon buddy. Although I hate that I
am recovering from surgery, I am beginning to feel thankful for these
quiet hours with Robby. He is growing up so quickly. I need to remember
to continue to carve out quiet time, not necessarily for an adventure,
but just to talk and hang out. If there is a silver lining behind my
surgical summer, it is most certainly the quiet time spent together.
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
No comments:
Post a Comment